Posted by: Jo Jordan on: September 14, 2009
This strange expression has been made popular by poet, David Whyte, who heard it first from a monk, counselling him during a bad bout of professional burnout.
It seems cruel, doesn’t it, to be told to put some elbow-grease into it, at a time we are so tired, we literally can’t think straight?
We feel exhausted, we become exhausted, when we pursue conflicted goals. We become like the mouse in a maze with cheese to the left and cheese to the right. Deary me – which way to go? It is the dithering that is exhausting. Or being greedy and trying to get both lots of cheese at the same time.
We have a heap of expressions for the sensation of getting moving.
Action becomes so easy and so natural. ‘Getting things done’ is not the issue – it is never the issue.
Do you know what you want?
Until we can distill our goals to a set that our smallish inefficient memories can remember (3 and at the most 5), we dither, and we wear ourselves out.
You do know, I hope, that we become impossible when we pursue goals. The dithering mouse turns into a juggernaut trampling over everyone and everything.
We must make sure that our goals are the right goals.
More this evening . . .
Postscript: Tuesday 15 September 2009
@paulocoelho: Cloning Confucius: a bird sings because he has a song, not because he has an answer
Do have a look at the rhyme added by Whappen in the comments.
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September 15, 2009 at 5:05 pm
He started to sing as he tackled the thing
That couldn’t be done & he did it.
I’ve found this a very helpful little rhyme – although I mostly do the singing on the inside!