Do we have the courage to recognise courage in others?
Posted January 10, 2010on:
I, with a deeper instinct, choose a man who compels my strength, who makes enormous demands on me, who does not doubt my courage or my toughness, who does not believe me naïve or innocent, who has the courage to treat me like a woman.
That would be the good way to evaluate any one who will have power over us – do they have the courage to treat us as person with our strengths and weaknesses? Do they have the courage to engage on an equal footing?
What would our relationships look like if we were to make enormous demands on others, if we did not doubt their courage or toughness, if we did not believe they were naïve or innocent?
What would our courage look and feel like?
I think we would enjoy it.
(And when powerful people do not have the courage to treat us as people, do we have the courage to recognize their fear?)